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Cake day: June 25th, 2023

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  • I didn’t think you intended any malice, it’s just the way we frame things is important and our words have impact, which is why I pointed it out.

    All I intended was to mock Musk for being the stereotypical macho asshole who can’t accept the end of a relationship with dignity.

    next time you can just say that, it’s accurate and places the blame where it belongs!

    Still he can go fuck himself.

    absolutely, I’m in no way trying to defend him here, it’s just about trying to focus on the right thing and not play in to already damaging stereotypes (the “gay/rans panic” defence is where this particular one ends up).




  • expect consequences when you get caught talking shit.

    Sure, to a point.
    Ever wonder why they never fire the bigot before they go public? The bigots I’ve met in life have really sucked at keeping their mask on, do you really think their employers (and fellow employees) were oblivious? Or was it only when there was publicity involved and the company feared for their own reputation, rather than the safety of their other employees, that they do something about it?
    Yet if you tweet “my boss sucks”, it probably won’t go viral or get any publicity, but your employer can just as easily fire you for “talking shit” that literally didn’t cause harm to anyone.

    You specified:

    If you found your friend talking shit about you

    Meaning if the company found you talking shit about it, and the fact that you think your employer can and should have that level of control over your thoughts and actions is actually terrifying.



  • I don’t know what kind of friends you have, but your employer is not your friend, nor your family.
    They are there to exploit your labour for profit, and will only ever defend themselves, never you.

    (this isn’t to say I agree with musk or anything, fuck him and anything he does, and fuck the bigots, they deserve consequences to their actions, but the idea that anyone would defend their boss like they would defend a friend makes me sad and angry and massively frustrated. Those contracts Karlos mentioned are 100% ass covering by a company that is more concerned with its reputation than it is with its employees, which when you consider we live in capitalism is to be expected, but it still seems to escape so so many people - 99% of employers don’t give two shits about you, including, and maybe especially, those who are really good at convincing you that they value “loyalty”)