I’m not convinced by arguments towards “support the developers”. They’ve already been paid for their work and won’t be getting royalties, and so buying and playing the game supports them neither financially or morally.

As to your final point; judging people for decisions they make is the ONLY thing that’s okay to judge people for. This isn’t a war game, and by not judging them you, personally, are helping to bolster the biggest terf in England. So I’ll continue judging the people who engage with HP, and I’m also judging people who decide to defend them.

Basically, when it comes to the harry potter franchise, the only winning move is to not play.